part 2

ഏഴു മണിക്കൂര്‍ നീണ്ടു നിന്ന പഠനം ,ക്ഷീണിച്ചു  ഉറങ്ങിപോയി .ഉറക്കമുണര്‍ന്ന് ഹോസ്റ്റല്‍ കാന്‍റീന്‍ ലേക്ക് നടന്നു .ചില്ലലമാരയില്‍ പലഹാരങ്ങള്‍   അടുക്കിവച്ചിരിക്കുന്നു .കട്ടന്‍ കാപ്പിയും  കുടിച്ചു  കുറച്ചുനേരം  അങ്ങനെ ഇരുന്നു .ടെന്നീസ് കളിയും കഴിഞ്ഞു പിള്ളേര് കാന്റീന്‍ ലേക്ക് ഓടി വരുന്നുണ്ട് .മൊബൈല്‍ ഇല് missed   കാള്‍ തിരയുന്നു ചിലര്‍ .സായാഹ്നം അടുത്തെത്തി .റൂമ്കളില്‍ വിളക്കുകള്‍ കത്തിത്തുടങ്ങി.

                             തിരിച്ചു റൂമില്‍ എത്തി ,മനസ്സ് ആവേശത്തിലാണ് ..ഒരേ ആനന്ദ  ലഹരിയില്‍ ..ഹിരണ്യ  ഗര്‍ഭത്തില്‍ നിന്നും ഭൂഗര്ഭത്തില്ലേക്ക് പരായണം ചെയ്യുന്ന ആത്മസ്വരൂപങ്ങള്‍ .....കോടി വര്‍ഷങ്ങളുടെ  നിശബ്ദത..ആത്മാവ് ഒരു മനുഷ്യ ഗര്‍ഭം തിരഞ്ഞെടുക്കുന്നു ...ആത്മഭാവങ്ങളുടെ പ്രഫുല്ലനതിനായി  ...ആത്മ സാക്ഷാത്കാരത്തിനായി.

                           അനിതയെ ഒന്ന് വിളിക്കണം .പ്രത്യേകിച്ച് ഒന്നും പറയാനില്ല.എന്നാലും വിളിക്കുക തന്നെ.അടുക്കും ചിട്ടയും ഉള്ള സംഭാഷണം , സ്നേഹാന്വേഷണങ്ങള്‍ .കാന്റീനില്‍  സപ്പര്‍  ബെല്‍ മുഴങ്ങി   .ഇന്ന് നോണ്‍-വെജ് ആണ്.കുറച്ചു കഴിഞ്ഞിട്ട് കഴിക്കാം .കുറച്ചു നേരം വെറുതെ ഇരിക്കണം .നിര്‍മമമായ അവസ്ഥയില്‍ .....സ്വന്തം ആത്മ ചൈതന്യത്തില്‍ ലയിച്ചിരിക്കുക ....അതത്രേ സ്വര്‍ഗം .എത്ര നേരം ഇരുന്നെന്നു അറിയില്ല ....നിശബ്ദതയുടെ ആഴവും നിശ്ചലതയുടെ  ദൈര്‍ഘ്യവും അളക്കുവാന്‍  കഴിയില്ലല്ലോ ."നീ അത്താഴം കഴിച്ചില്ലേ ?",കൂട്ടുകാരുടെ ചോദ്യം എന്നെ ഉണര്‍ത്തി .വേഗം കാന്റീന്‍ ലേക്ക് .തിരികെ വന്നു വീണ്ടും പഠനം 

                                                 ഡിസംബര്‍ എത്തി ,ഇത്തവണ മഞ്ഞു കൂടുതലാണെന്ന് തോന്നുന്നു ,നല്ല കാറ്റും ഉണ്ട്. ഋതു ഭേതങ്ങള്‍ പ്രണയാര്‍ദ്രമായ മനസുകളെ നോവിച്ചു കൊണ്ടാണോ കടന്നു പോകുന്നത്? അതോ കാലം നിര്‍വികാരതയോടെ മനസ്സിനെ ഇക്കിളിപ്പെടുതി ചിരിക്കുകയാണോ ?ഓര്‍ക്കിഡ് പൂവുകള്‍ വിരിയുന്ന ഡിസംബര്‍ !എന്നിലും പ്രണയത്തിന്റെ നാമ്പുകള്‍ തളിരിടുന്നുവോ?അനിതയോട് ....ഈ മഞ്ഞു  അതിന്റെ ലക്ഷണമത്രേ....ഈ കാറ്റ് എന്ത് ഭാവിച്ചാണ് എന്നെ നോക്കി ചിരിക്കുന്നത്?

                      ആ ദിവസം, ഞാന്‍ ഏറ്റുപറഞ്ഞു ...എന്റെ പ്രണയം ,നെഞ്ചിടിപ്പോടെ!.അവള്‍ പുഞ്ചിരിച്ചു ...."കൂട്ടുകാരാ ..അങ്ങയുടെ പ്രണയത്തിന്റെ  അഗ്നിജ്വാലകള്‍ ഞാന്‍ കാണുന്നു...പക്ഷെ ഒരു കാറ്റു വീശിയാല്‍ അണയുന്ന നാളങ്ങള്‍ അല്ലെ അത് ...എന്നില്‍ പ്രണയത്തിന്റെ കനലുകലാണ് ..ഒരിക്കലും അണയാത്ത ..നന്മയോടുള്ള ...പ്രണയമത്രെ ..ഏകം ..അമര്‍ത്യം...അചലം ...അത് പാനം ചെയ്തു ലഹരി  പിടിച്ചിരിക്കുന്നു ഞാന്‍ ...ഈ കനലുകള്‍ അങ്ങയെ പോള്ളലെല്പിക്കും...പ്രേമത്തിന് അപ്പുറമുള്ള  സത്യം ഉണ്ടെങ്കില്‍ അവിടെ ഞാന്‍ ഉണ്ടാകും ..."അനിത പറഞ്ഞു നിര്‍ത്തി .............                വീണ്ടും ആ മായാത്ത പുഞ്ചിരി..!

                            

  

Marriage

Marriage is a joint travel.Your partner has emotions,sentiments & likes etc which you value or even not hinder,then the journey will be a pleasure trip!
               If it becomes a contract the possibility of its blooming is in danger. You purchase  the other. Then the purchased becomes a product,essentially serving some defined purpose only.  You degrade the other to a lower level of living being.Human beings have an innate yearning inside to express their own inner urges and get identified with those sentiments.If we do not allow it to happen depression happens.A depressed person can not give the other any happiness.Some times we hide the inside depression and act like we are happily living (at least in front of others),but any hiding your inside causes unwanted weeds to grow inside you.When you look , you see scratches and injuries  inside.
                                Marriage should give freedom to express yourself,because you have the support of your fellow,if u err, the fellow can correct you & you may not go wrong, if you live in ecstasy ,because you are well equipped to select the right only.You married the freedom,married the friendship and you are traveling with a companion..If all three happens.....Journey never ends!

Friendship

'Sathsangathe Nisangathwam' Says Sankaracharya.True friendship is detached!Detachment is the feature of true friendship.Any kind of attachment is not friendship.You need a string or a hook to get attached,a flexible string which makes you move  closer sometimes and distant in many occasions.The string is your own mind,which pulls and scales the distance to be kept with your friend Because attachment is a feature of your mind only.Nothing wrong in judging a person ,but  do not give up the feeling of connection,because you becoming a friend of some one is for no reason...just a coincidence!The cosmos gives you a chance to shower your pure love over your friend!And your friend needs the fragrance of you!
                                    Detachment means your friendship is moving ahead without any oscillation. Why you take deviation if you want to go straight?You keep the good relation intact as a treasure,locked,inside your heart.At times the friend goes wrong,the lock opens,and the affection heals and purifies the other.It demands nothing.Because you do not want to achieve anything..you are relaxed!.Friendship is endless and for no purpose,if  it is for a purpose and you are not achieving it, it hurts or you achieve it & the purpose is served & the friendship ends..A true friend can take the other to an upper room of ecstasy where all the trivialities of the world disappear!The windows of that room is open always,allowing the breeze to come in...you breath the pure air...taste the eternity....allowing the friendship to blossom perpetually......!
                        
          

Corruption.

Anna hazare goes on a hunger strike against corruption in our country.He wants more strict rules to fight corruption.Great move from the veteran leader!
        India is a country preserving high values.It has rich heritage and tradition.But India tops in corruption list ,now.Rules can be made to arrest corruption.Our jails become crowded once strict rules are imposed.Corrupt people can be jailed,but not corrupt mindedness.It will find out loopholes and the process will continue.
            Corruption is a kind of disease...Polluting the air by bad words is corruption,polluting the purpose of a good project by tapping money illegally is corruption.The more you grab the worse will be your suffering,And you think this money will free you from suffering,No,To get rid of this mess you accumulate more...You become a reservoir not a river .River flows and gives ,reservoir binds & fouls .You become a victim of your greed.
               Accumulating money in proper way is  great.You , becoming a kubera is fantastic.Then the affluence gives you enjoyment . Anything which can not be properly used for your satisfaction creates suffering.It is not the style of living but state of mind that matters.World  is challenging you continuously to upgrade your style of living.If you go on upgrading your style, it's an endless process..But if you reach a state of mind of completeness, then the only thing needed  is that you have to sustain that state.. .To reach a good state of mind you should follow some values.You should value others too..If the planet earth is having more number of corrupt people the life here will disappear within ten years!It is high time that these people should scan their system and get the viruses out of their minds.We must get back the money looted from us.
             India develops so fast,we are losing our values even faster.No education to protect our values.Education is given only to make students capable of earning money.Utility theory.West has practiced this theory.. .Anything which does not spin money is useless there...including retired parents!

Independence,,,

Society wants dependence.It teaches you unwritten rules,do's & donts etc.It does not cater to your own individual needs and feelers,it tries to contain you and fit you to a dress which is tailored not in your size.It has pre -owned attire ,you bend and bow down to wear it! They wanted you to be inside the format or forum .Then  social acceptance is the reward!If you are too straight they say you are an oldie...too smart you are pervert!You are being ruled by incapable...Slowly you accept the dependence.
         If you like to enjoy the breeze in paddy fields, society thinks you are awkward.You go to a second show in theater it is OK,You go to a club and inebriated you are' FIT' in the society!Go to a river and swim,you are illiterate! Have a jacuzzi and not bath at all ,you are yo-yo!Society attributes features and structures to you.It reduces your being into a remote control robot ,it directs you, when to smile and how many inches you open your lips.Buying a new dress and not going to church for a showdown, what use?In a new vehicle you go to club,you see a high priced one there .alas!Too much dependence on society!Social clubs are polluting the very air by gossips ,garbage and liquor bottles.
             Live the way you are.If you feel like you want to sleep,sleep well without guilt,you may be blessed by a sweet dream!If your inner being likes to feed an animal do it now.If you proceed with right actions satisfying your own intuitions and awareness, you can find out, society is a dust bin and people there, sit atop the Heep of garbage.And if you are self confident why you need a certificate from the society?You have enough of  inner treasures inside your being, intact.You do not need a fragile frame from the society to adorn yourself!

                         
                

Bouquet & bonsai..

  Most of us have dreams during night, related to some events that happened in the child hood days.Touching portrayals of schooling ,vivid extracts of people and events that came across during early ages.Why?We were intense and passionate then.A school tour,getting new dress,a feast....it is like our very being jumps out of us to celebrate events.I remember the long waiting for the yearly feast in our church...to ear the first beat of the drum...and the whistling of local band set ...the shopping from 'vechu vaanees' (street vendors),the night drama..etc.
And the most ruthless day in the life, going to school  the very next  day of the feast because a full year to wait for the next feast!
        When we become middle aged the intensity goes down, we do not have solid body memories and we lose the sweet dreams too!Going for a tour and you are not thrilled,you kill some money...cursing the vacation spot...taking snaps...reassuring that you had your vacation .Getting something new and you are not excited means you spent some money to prove in front of the society that you are still rich!Logical satisfaction...not for your senses..And your neighbor goes for a better buy your logic betrays you!
                A person who lives with his senses enjoys the moments of happiness derived out of any action.He does not mind  the logical appraisal and outcome of events happened to him.Live your way of happiness..Ecstatic...!Like a child!

Recoveries from audit.

   Towards the end of auditing in our branch, came a fever .A viral fever,suddenly raising my temperature to 103 degree.In the morning i thought i would go to hospital for consultation and then straight to office to take part in the final audit discussion So i instructed my wife not to come with me.I drove my car myself and reached the multy specialty hospital.To my distress i found myself too weak and pale ,i could not queue or go to pharmacy.I felt the kind of a small giddiness....And i thought i am alone in this world....despite the fact  that a thousand telephone numbers are in my mobile touch screen!
               Suddenly a woman appeared in front of me and directed me to the casualty,there i got an injection.When i stepped out of the room i saw she was waiting for me .She did the billing and handed over the medicines .I felt some relief and my eyes got to see everything clearly...I saw her carrying the kid who is crying and coughing continuously&waiting the child specialist..I paid her the bill amount saying nothing ,even not asking her name...because i was still in drowsiness.  I went to office,the tamilian auditor smiled and said "Go and take rest,excellent rating for the department!" I returned home .

              I got into a deep sleep under the influence of medicines....slowly i went into the realization that we are alone and true to our self.. but always attended by some one....We are infinite...An emergency comes...The supreme power will bull doze the difficulties and jack you up!A tiny seed falls into mud and emerges itself as a beautiful plant having full of flowers!A bowl of food converts itself into blood within no time through digestion!Miracles galore!!!

Atheist

A friend of mine whom i like very much has described himself an atheist. It is a word i do not come across during any of my studies.I dont know the thick dogmas which advocates atheism.
          A person who sees with clarity,gives importance to simple reasoning,evaluates things in consonance with its merits and demerits.And a person who believes not illogical things,prophesies &superstitions.Thus far i know about atheism.One thing is sure.An atheist is a person who is very near to spirituality!He is ready to say he knows only things which are knowable.He does not want to keep an account in swiss bank... obscure!with the belief that the mighty bank will take care of him!Believers of God, many a times proudly say they have huge bank balance in Bank of Almighty and the fund will take care of them now and even after death!Strange enough, ones belief contradicts the other ones belief.
               If a person says he knows only the facts around him and not ready to believe more he is in the right path.Because many things about spirituality is belief based,without proof,even false belief is received with acclaim because all believers can believe a lot,many fancies,many stories told to you in childhood.And if you do not believe such things you may feel guilty because you fear, you may face the wrath of God or may not receive the blessings!Any belief is blind,that is why one mans belief is totally against the other ones.So much of hatred and war over belief systems...Fighting for ones belief...fighting for ones own God...They say God is love...That you do not believe...because if God is love we can also love people of other religions..No...Our God is only love & my friends God is hatred.It is like  our sugar is sweet...not my neighbors!Many types of Gods!
        A person who sees this drama from his very birth becomes an atheist...it is not his fault...But....
  
       When an atheist says there is no God or spiritual force he depends too much on his logic&intelligence.And he closes the doors too.Nothing is beyond logic,He is definite.He is correct,God is not someone who can be known by logic.If u depend too much on your logic no chance for God.
   Lord Budha was asked "who is the creator"?He replied "The creator is the creation"Not Two,All in One!
A great macro energy runs...uninterrupted... Without measurements...Even without a beginning or end...Thus our limited logic loses the scope...So atheist closes the door with his own logic intact.
      A formless energy..independent intelligence..updating itself in every fraction of a second..God does not have form..Humans have forms...You will not believe any thing formless...Acharyas depicted Gods in numerous forms...Only for our cognizance..Because we wanted to see to believe...
        If u put form to this great energy the experience part loses..Can you deny the experience of love only because it is formless..Does pain have form?You go beyond the boundary of your body to experience the formless.
          A devotee goes to a church or a person goes to a mosque will feel the same degree of ecstasy and inner peace .For both of them the source is same.Only from the same source identical result comes,Sugar is derived only from sugarcane  anywhere.Thus proving the one and only energy center..Creator is the creation.. !
       Spirituality means awakening the formless spirits in you.Happiness,love,compassion all are formless spirits profusely residing inside you.If these energies are awakened you elevate yourself to a higher level of awareness.These are the products of your soul & you realize the presence of your very soul inside you,nonperishable.You think beyond your body limits,you realize your cosmic connection,you go for, out of body experiences..you realize you are your soul which is oneness with the whole.Then you start expressing ....unexplainable...unfathomable...undemanding.....pure bliss,love&compassion.

Malware!

Narayanan krishnan has been nominated for CNN award for humanitarian activities.He runs a kitchen in chennai giving food to 250 odd mentally retarded people everyday.Great human being!His cause inspires many people.
       The history of mankind reveals sagas of great human beings ,whom by their own selfless acts, became larger than life size images.We look at them with  respect&amazement.For us,they are examples of compassion,last word for virtue etc.Sometimes,we identify our own goodness with theirs...We wish we could change the world!But not courageous enough & we are busy with our own duties too..Slowly we postpone...We end up experiencing the feeling of virtue inside our mind...not  putting anything into practice... We do not start...We identify with great idols...neglecting some simple services to the needy people around us.
        When an incident of corruption happened in our country...we are busy reacting to it...through our conversations...We neglect a small corruption happening near our workplace...it is not my duty...I will react to 2Gs or 3Gs only.Fighting with madness is also madness..You engineer your own mechanism..If affluent persons give a single meal everyday to the starving, the world will sleep without empty stomach!
            The media makes us believe that only the big exists!Think in a big way!...Only big ideas sell..Things are brought in front of you in large size!.When our minds are inspired by great acts we feel a pseudo urge for virtue, losing the sacred inside happiness of any practical action,.however small our action may be.Only if you do something practical you feel the fulfilment..Yes, human beings are hijacked by great ideas in social networks...no practical actions...When Narayanan Krishnan feeds a lot of people ,shall we spare a single meal...at least once in a week?

GOOD FRIDAY.........

When I was a young boy in the 1970s, Jesus was ''unneeso''(infant Jesus) for me. At the time of my first holy communion ,I remember,my elder brother saying,”Build a chair inside your heart for 'unneeso' to sit, by chanting holy japas.”During night I used to repeat japas in large numbers….joyous days....''unneeso'' comes to your heart...I prepared myself.  And came ''unneeso'' with all splendor & joy! I felt as if I got a true friend! Slowly a problem started inside me. Some questions....This friend is not an ordinary one..He is son of God...Any mischievous act I do, my friend will catch ...And 'unneeso' may lose his good opinion about me...And he may quit the chair I built out of holy japas. I thought, as 'unneeso' has already come, now I can reduce the number of japas...But I was afraid ,this guy would notice it...After all God knows everything!

     And after some months I realized that it is not easy to accommodate him any longer...I wanted to do all kinds of naughtiness....And inside my mind an adoration for heroes like Tom Sawyer & Huck started growing. What to do? Slowly my friend 'unneeso' disappeared from my heart. Deep in my heart I knew 'unneeso' did only good things to me...But I was hijacked by these heroes! Before parting, eeso said to me, "If you need me again, I am ready to come and sit in the chair inside your heart". I did not reply.

            After many years I returned to him, I prayed to him, I tried to love him, I visited many a churches to see him, tried those japas to renovate the old chair inside my heart. And I felt Jesus is nowhere near me. It seems that Jesus lived long ago, 2000 odd years! He does not know me. And alas for me, I can’t visualize that 'unneeso' anymore because Jesus has become CHRIST in front of me ,now.

                I felt sad....Suddenly...one day  I remembered the promise which 'unneeso' had made, "If you need me...."I became enthusiastic again....I could hear Jesus saying "do not try to love me, love your neighbor first ...

I tried to love my neighbor...my pet animals...trees...people irrespective of cast, creed and religion...I started feeling the sweetness of love....the ecstasy of being loved.....I started experiencing Christ....Today morning I got an SMS from my friend: ‘It was not the nails that kept Jesus on the cross! But his love for u &  me!’

Tension

I was born in a village, vakakkad,near pala.During my primary school days the village has no electricity nor any bus service.Only mud road,two kilo meters walk to the bus stop.From 5th standard onwards i used to walk two kilo meters in the morning to school ,two each during noon time to take lunch and the return after the class ,total 8 kilo meters!Still life was such intense,joyful&complete in every sense.No hesitation,guests were treated sumptuously,no dearth for water in bath rooms,no hue&cry over washing and ironing clothes,(iron box charcoal equipped,energy saver&green earth!)The very air is not familiar with words like tension,stress,energy,synergy,best,worst etc.idiotic words!No best at that time,because we do not compare.Life in its totality with all purity.Nature gives you rain,wind &heat in time incorruptibly.
                          The other day a power cut happened, half an hour. It appeared like the world was going to end.I was wondering what would happen to us if a power failure happens for a week! We are successful in creating  more   comfort&convenience in this world&our standard of life increased ,no doubt.Our degree of physical pleasure also come up.We become more modern,sophisticated ,technically perfect.For a moment we think we control the life itself.Yes, modern man changed the destiny of mankind a lot.Inventions and discoveries in almost all fields of activities,though costing heavily to the planet earth.
                                        It appears strange that in spite of all these  the graph of tension rises day by day in our life.Human beings are tantalized by fear of future or fear of tomorrow.We wake up with fear,because we are filled with thoughts of insecurity.We do not trust anybody,we are too much logical.Anything our mind receives only after judging and analyzing thoroughly.We are not secure inside,as a result we are in search of security outside.We make all kinds of protective measures around us thinking that we are secure to that extent.A phone rings!We are tensed.Who is calling, ?what is the message?We forget that security is a feeling happening inside&and the more we try to secure us by correcting outside the more we are away from inside.If you are away from the work place how can you improve the situation there?
         Now modern management experts say tension is inevitable. Accept tension &worry& we pass those stress which we get from higher authorities,they say.If everything goes smooth & you are happy,they will not allow you  to  be happy.They say tomorrow things will change& start  worrying now! Any happiness is complacence for them.And any complacency is laziness for them.They misinterpret that only if you are tensed you will work.They show urgency&impatience in their body language.And by believing so, they also become hyper tensed.Now in meetings the routine question is"Any body wants tea with sugar?(not without sugar).Sweet thirties!
        Human beings are always thinking about their future.What will happen& what can happen?Two main thoughts.What will happen is the anxiety part &what can happen is our expectation about future.Worrying&dreaming.The strange part about thoughts is that it is completely unconnected.For example within a given 30 minutes of time you may have more than 100 thoughts which are not interconnected.Yes! Your thoughts are not yours!Only thing is that, it is happening inside you .The steering of your vehicle is not in your hands.Still you are getting caught  with your thoughts which fools you constantly...
      What is tension?it is a thought about the past,mostly about a bad thing happened  in the past or thought about your future .Both these thoughts you carry in the present is called tension.For eg:You have an assignment to do in the next week,you always think about it&fear about its successful completion.Actually the success of the task is no way connected to your unwanted thinking about it continuously.If at all the task fails you have to be tensed then only.Why you drag that tension?
               Thoughts are like uninvited visitors to our house.Suppose such visitors come in large numbers,can we able to feed them?Even our own privacy will be hindered.Just as our visitors have many purposes,our thoughts accompany many emotions too.We pay our full attention to these thoughts because we think we own it.Have you noticed ever that, some days you wake up in low mood or jittery for no reason at all.Just a bad thought hits you!Thats why the tension.You are a victim of your thoughts!Any thing which you do not have control is not yours.Your thoughts are not yours& the resultant emotions are also not yours!
Disrespect your thoughts,deliberately....You can see the effect of unwanted thoughts slowly dwindles in you.Your inner chattering gets reduced....You r getting free from tension...you live in the present!
 A work out: Just write in a paper any tensed thoughts happening during an hour.Read this paper after two days.You yourself will realize the fallacy of of such thoughts&you become cautious handling with your thoughts.

part 2

When u lov,you see your lover as God.His words,his presence,his smile etc energizes you.you feel you are in heaven!Your eyes see only beautiful things.your birth becomes meaningful.your existence is gifted.your nights are full of dreams!your attention is focused towards the lover.you are always thinking about him.And that is the first advantage of love.you are getting rid of other thoughts.its like a worship.A great chance for lovers to experience oneness.but lovers do not use this..they misunderstand love as something which you get from the other..no.love is the search of your mind to get good from the other.initially you are satisfied with the receipt of goodness from the other,but,your mind is searching goodness outside also.it is searching for perfection.slowly your mind is bored of the goodness of your lover and it misunderstands that he is not loving you.you lose the oneness.you complaint hat your lover does not love you.
use love as a great opportunity to center your mind by dropping your lover's physical form at least for some days,.how?you loved his good,not him.if you drop his form your mind becomes still and you realize true love. you are not the search engine for love,but you are true love.you do not total the receipts of love.you will not be hurt if your lover does not return the love back because you realize love is not a give&take or exchange .its a blessed situation in which you are in!will you search ac rooms if you are in ooty?no.you realize you are pure love!

part 1

Of Love&Friendship....Victor Writes....
love is the sweetest emotion of inclusiveness.A lover tries to include the other one for his emotional fulfillment.He wants the other person with him for completeness..And you lov...you part with..You lov.. you part with..Why?Because you loved his good.His/Her beauty..loving nature..intelligence...other qualities.You can not end your search even after you become a lover.Your mind again & again search for more beauties and more goodness and more love.Its like you include & part with..No one can include the other continously and completely.(Because you are not including the other but his good things only).Your mind needs more perfection..you are in search.Love is only the vehicle not destination.The yearning for lov more &more is nothing but your search for the destination .We misunderstand it as the destination..We enter the vehicle but alight in a stop which is not the destination.The destination is pure oneness with the existence which you cant part with..because once you reach there you are in union..absolutely...you can not search further..because you have included the whole inside you..then why search outside? A linen can have whiteness upto the whiteness of its yarn only...Then the lov starts in you...suddenly...you touch the soul of love...Eternal love..

compassion

The word compassion means showing kindness to the poor people,giving
food and clothes to them and helping them.A person close to you is in need of money.Urgently we people coming forward to help that person is another form of compassion.A visit to a patient is also an act of kindness.All the charitable institutions show and practice this very idea.Some charitable organizations grow faster than anything because people believe that any act of kindness will fetch them well being.
I think what is described above is only the minimum form of compassion .Because a poor person may come up financially within a short time,if he wants.Even ailments can be cured with proper treatment.Again and again social service organizations project poverty and diseases-the main curses of the present world. I fear if both of these are eradicated many a ones becomes jobless!
Showing kindness to the words and acts of your fellow being is real compassion .Because, our mind reacts to outside happenings continuously.If a person talks to you angrily the mechanism in you takes the angry part inside you to react with him.And a war starts! World war!!But if you can realize that the person who appears in front of you is essentially you yourself and his emotional part is excited a little bit, you can contain your mind from taking the same weapon.Realizing your well handling the situation, his very inner mind will beg a pardon for his own thoughtless acts ,even though he may not say it openly.Mind is a strange gamer. Sometimes it makes you turbulent for a reason,sometimes the same reason, it does not react to!If we analyze a little deeper, we see that we are the victims of our minds' play!Mind fools us always!Mind is intelligent, it rules you..takes you away outside and throw you in difficult situations..Then it is your duty to come back to normalcy..once you came back you can see that what had happened was only ten per cent reality and 90 per cent unwanted emotional projections.
Your mind is made up of all the mass of conditioned ideas which you gathered right from your childhood.So you fight for those stored ideas,beliefs etc.Ideas are ever changing but you cant adjust to that and you try to oust those which will confront with your stored ones.That's why generation gap occurs in its dangerous form.Life is manifesting in forms so differently.You be a spectator reflecting the enormous diversity happening around you, not reacting at all.Then you can experience the beauty of life!