When u lov,you see your lover as God.His words,his presence,his smile etc energizes you.you feel you are in heaven!Your eyes see only beautiful things.your birth becomes meaningful.your existence is gifted.your nights are full of dreams!your attention is focused towards the lover.you are always thinking about him.And that is the first advantage of love.you are getting rid of other thoughts.its like a worship.A great chance for lovers to experience oneness.but lovers do not use this..they misunderstand love as something which you get from the other..no.love is the search of your mind to get good from the other.initially you are satisfied with the receipt of goodness from the other,but,your mind is searching goodness outside also.it is searching for perfection.slowly your mind is bored of the goodness of your lover and it misunderstands that he is not loving you.you lose the oneness.you complaint hat your lover does not love you.
use love as a great opportunity to center your mind by dropping your lover's physical form at least for some days,.how?you loved his good,not him.if you drop his form your mind becomes still and you realize true love. you are not the search engine for love,but you are true love.you do not total the receipts of love.you will not be hurt if your lover does not return the love back because you realize love is not a give&take or exchange .its a blessed situation in which you are in!will you search ac rooms if you are in ooty?no.you realize you are pure love!
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