part 2

When u lov,you see your lover as God.His words,his presence,his smile etc energizes you.you feel you are in heaven!Your eyes see only beautiful things.your birth becomes meaningful.your existence is gifted.your nights are full of dreams!your attention is focused towards the lover.you are always thinking about him.And that is the first advantage of love.you are getting rid of other thoughts.its like a worship.A great chance for lovers to experience oneness.but lovers do not use this..they misunderstand love as something which you get from the other..no.love is the search of your mind to get good from the other.initially you are satisfied with the receipt of goodness from the other,but,your mind is searching goodness outside also.it is searching for perfection.slowly your mind is bored of the goodness of your lover and it misunderstands that he is not loving you.you lose the oneness.you complaint hat your lover does not love you.
use love as a great opportunity to center your mind by dropping your lover's physical form at least for some days,.how?you loved his good,not him.if you drop his form your mind becomes still and you realize true love. you are not the search engine for love,but you are true love.you do not total the receipts of love.you will not be hurt if your lover does not return the love back because you realize love is not a give&take or exchange .its a blessed situation in which you are in!will you search ac rooms if you are in ooty?no.you realize you are pure love!

part 1

Of Love&Friendship....Victor Writes....
love is the sweetest emotion of inclusiveness.A lover tries to include the other one for his emotional fulfillment.He wants the other person with him for completeness..And you lov...you part with..You lov.. you part with..Why?Because you loved his good.His/Her beauty..loving nature..intelligence...other qualities.You can not end your search even after you become a lover.Your mind again & again search for more beauties and more goodness and more love.Its like you include & part with..No one can include the other continously and completely.(Because you are not including the other but his good things only).Your mind needs more perfection..you are in search.Love is only the vehicle not destination.The yearning for lov more &more is nothing but your search for the destination .We misunderstand it as the destination..We enter the vehicle but alight in a stop which is not the destination.The destination is pure oneness with the existence which you cant part with..because once you reach there you are in union..absolutely...you can not search further..because you have included the whole inside you..then why search outside? A linen can have whiteness upto the whiteness of its yarn only...Then the lov starts in you...suddenly...you touch the soul of love...Eternal love..

compassion

The word compassion means showing kindness to the poor people,giving
food and clothes to them and helping them.A person close to you is in need of money.Urgently we people coming forward to help that person is another form of compassion.A visit to a patient is also an act of kindness.All the charitable institutions show and practice this very idea.Some charitable organizations grow faster than anything because people believe that any act of kindness will fetch them well being.
I think what is described above is only the minimum form of compassion .Because a poor person may come up financially within a short time,if he wants.Even ailments can be cured with proper treatment.Again and again social service organizations project poverty and diseases-the main curses of the present world. I fear if both of these are eradicated many a ones becomes jobless!
Showing kindness to the words and acts of your fellow being is real compassion .Because, our mind reacts to outside happenings continuously.If a person talks to you angrily the mechanism in you takes the angry part inside you to react with him.And a war starts! World war!!But if you can realize that the person who appears in front of you is essentially you yourself and his emotional part is excited a little bit, you can contain your mind from taking the same weapon.Realizing your well handling the situation, his very inner mind will beg a pardon for his own thoughtless acts ,even though he may not say it openly.Mind is a strange gamer. Sometimes it makes you turbulent for a reason,sometimes the same reason, it does not react to!If we analyze a little deeper, we see that we are the victims of our minds' play!Mind fools us always!Mind is intelligent, it rules you..takes you away outside and throw you in difficult situations..Then it is your duty to come back to normalcy..once you came back you can see that what had happened was only ten per cent reality and 90 per cent unwanted emotional projections.
Your mind is made up of all the mass of conditioned ideas which you gathered right from your childhood.So you fight for those stored ideas,beliefs etc.Ideas are ever changing but you cant adjust to that and you try to oust those which will confront with your stored ones.That's why generation gap occurs in its dangerous form.Life is manifesting in forms so differently.You be a spectator reflecting the enormous diversity happening around you, not reacting at all.Then you can experience the beauty of life!